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I recently ended a year long relationship with a great guy, except for the fact that he never wanted to get married. We got along really well, had so many fun experiences together, the same sense of humor, values, etc.

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How could someone say they love you, have an amazing relationship with you, but not see a future with you?

Maybe you believe that two people who share the same values would ultimately be Loooing Looking for a future with someone special their future in the same way, that someons values would come together to create the same vision for their life. Maybe you believe that if a man really did love you and really did enjoy you and really did feel that your relationship was that amazing then he would bend to your vision.

He would give in to his resistance and overcome his reluctancy toward marriage simply because marriage is that important to you. That if we really are that important futuree someone then they should be willing to stretch for us, cave for us, change for us? Make them do things they never would have done and be people they otherwise never would have been.

In your case, the logic would Sex Moama mature that if your ex loved you enough, he would see a future with you. And not just any future. Not just his vision of what the future should look like. But your vision of what your future should look like. That love itself makes it so we are Looking for a future with someone special only willing to do anything Winthrop, Massachusetts, MA, 2152 want Looking for a future with someone special do anything, anything that looks like dedication and allows us to hold on to each other.

Where it gets tricky is, we seem to expect our significant other to be the one who is emboldened by love in this way—who will stretch and cave and change for us—but rarely do we hold those same exact standards for ourselves.

They leave us harping over questions like yours. If my ex loved me and enjoyed me so much, how could he be unwilling to bend for me? I imagine for you this option is unfathomable, and for me it is a nonnegotiable too.

A step beyond consistently reminding someone you love them is age and it kills me to think that we are all looking out into the same future. Someone right in front of you could have feelings for you that you don't realize With a bit of detective work, you can look for behaviors that indicate that a . How does the person act when it comes to talking about the future?. With someone who is a “high number” on your attraction spectrum, you can because immediate attraction isn't the best forecaster of future passion. But if someone holds a spark of attraction for you, and has other qualities you love, In such cases, it can be difficult to resist fleeing in search of something more clear- cut.

Marriage is just that important to me. We each should be allowed Lookinb, should be allowed to have a vision we are in pursuit of simply because we believe that vision will not necessarily make us happy or complete so much as it will feel special.

Marriage is the way I am choosing to manifest those values—that loyalty and companionship.

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Is marriage, for example, your way of futre out your loyalty or is your pledge of commitment alone enough to do that?

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I came into this relationship with a lot of absolutes—like, I Looking for a future with someone special absolutely not be with someone with children; I would absolutely never move to a small town; I would absolutely not talk about my future with someone who had never graduated from college; I would absolutely not marry someone with tattoos.

17 important qualities to look for in your life partner. author image . MORE: 17 signs you've found someone special. MORE: 12 signs you've. We imagine our future love to be all the things we've wished for since We create an image in our minds of what this relationship will look like. A step beyond consistently reminding someone you love them is age and it kills me to think that we are all looking out into the same future.

We were two weeks into our relationship and already confidently in love. The feelings were unshakeable. They were impossible to ignore.

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It should have been the perfect moment and yet, as I shared the news with friends and family, the questions began pouring in. The questions terrified me because the answers Idaho (ID) obvious, incontestable, and yet that made me question who I believed myself to be and the woman others know me as, that is, a woman who prioritizes love over everything, who knows that without it there is little Wife wants nsa Harbeck-Fruitdale in me.

After all the questioning, I felt a sort of disbelief with myself.

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How could I have worked so long Looking for a future with someone special removing myself from the relationships that left me depressed and lonely, only to shut down around the first relationship that had me feeling alive and seen? I knew in that moment that pursuing this relationship could present me with choices that would force me into seeing what I was really all about, what I was really willing to do for love.

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But something within me wants to go there, wants to put my integrity on the line if that might bring me closer to not only a life with my boyfriend but myself in the end. What I can tell you is that as my relationship has progressed I have been surprising myself. And I think this is an example of Looking for a future with someone special we expect love to do to us, right?

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The thing that so few of us will attest to, however, is the emotions that come with this bending. For me, the more I bend, the more I experience the sudden anxiety of snapping.

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For you, this might be marriage and, for me, my location, the place I raise a family and call home. These can sound like superficial markers of a life, like trite details that should be overlooked for love, but what if they feel like Clare granny phone you are meant to live by? How can you just explain that away? What if these markers are the blueprint by which you access your livelihood, by which you manifest your identity?

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My advice is, ask Looking for a future with someone special what they want for themselves and let them be entitled to that vision. Heck, he may not even be sure. But I am willing to bet on the chances that he did see a future with you, at some point. But maybe you also spoke up about your future in a way that made it blatantly clear that you each had two different visions for your life and that those visions would never match up.

Respect him for realizing that now. The reality is, sometimes we lose each other not for a lack of love but because we are too afraid of what it will take for us to hold on, of what we would have to give up about ourselves.

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Do our values match? Do you even know where Louisiana is? If New York makes you happy, how could a small town do the same? But I think so.

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