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It's all making me think even more about this. Some of these people I do like but just feel really awkward around. They're extremely nice people but with whom I don't feel comfortable sharing my normal sarcastic wit. I don't think I go for the straight, "Your favourite TV show sucks" buzz kill, but I do know the "oh, huh" response doesn't Chatting the boredom away with some of my family members.
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